Tag Archives: relationship anarchy

Why Non-Toxic Monogamy Is a Beautiful Thing & Why Yes = No, No = Yes

Even though I run a site called Poly.Land, sometimes people are surprised to find out that these days I don’t consider myself to be primarily polyamorous per se — but ambiamorous.

I’ve written about ambiamory many times on this site, for example:

To Make Mono/Poly Easier, View Monogamy and Polyamory as a Spectrum,  » Read more

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Solo Polyamory Raises Important Questions That I’m Glad to Hear People Asking

Page   July 30, 2018   Comments Off on Solo Polyamory Raises Important Questions That I’m Glad to Hear People Asking

Hi Page,

Thank you for your blog. It’s really awesome.

I was wondering if you have written any pieces about solo polyamory and what your opinion is on it?

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You know, I have written about solo polyamory here but only very little.  » Read more

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How I Approach Polyamory While in a Power Exchange (D/s) Relationship

Page   April 2, 2018   Comments Off on How I Approach Polyamory While in a Power Exchange (D/s) Relationship

I’ve been reading your blog for quite some time now, I find it super helpful. I have a question…you and Justin have a power exchange relationship, right? How does the fact that he owns you affect your other relationships? I’m in a similar situation and am curious how others handle it.

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This is a great question!  » Read more

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PQ 9.11 — Do I feel that my partner considers me inferior to him or his other partners?

Page   August 12, 2017   Comments Off on PQ 9.11 — Do I feel that my partner considers me inferior to him or his other partners?

PQ 9.11 — Do I feel that my partner considers me inferior to him or his other partners?

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“I wasn’t sure who… you were with,” the new girl says hesitantly, with a gentle emphasis on the last word. Her eyes dart from Skyspook to CC and back again.  » Read more

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Is Solo Polyamory Ableist?: A Readers’ Response Discussion

Page   March 14, 2017   Comments Off on Is Solo Polyamory Ableist?: A Readers’ Response Discussion

I recently stumbled across a post from Poly Talk called “Is Solo Polyamory Ableist?”

In the piece, Codi Coday asserts that solo polyamory as a relationship style is inaccessible and ableist, i.e., that it is discriminatory against individuals who are not able-bodied.

Quite a statement.

I wasn’t quite sure what to make of it,  » Read more

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Pair of White Cards

Page   June 24, 2015   Comments Off on Pair of White Cards

There are times when, for whatever reason, you end up at places you didn’t know existed. Part of this is undoubtedly the limited number of cultural narratives and how they butt up sharply against the richness and variety of actual life experience. And part of this? Life, at least the one I’ve lived, is twisty-turny […]