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What Does It Mean to Be a Credit to Your Kink?

I’m not sure exactly where I heard it first, but it was all the rage during the first year or two after I joined FetLife: “Be a credit to your kink.”

Practically everyone was writing about it back then, in some way, shape, or form.

The basic premise of this catchphrase was this: If you’re doing something considered beyond the sociosexual pale,  » Read more

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PQ 5.4 — When I think about the future, what does it look like? Is there room for change and growth?

Page   February 9, 2017   Comments Off on PQ 5.4 — When I think about the future, what does it look like? Is there room for change and growth?

PQ 5.4 — When I think about the future, what does it look like? Is there room for change and growth? (see also 2.4 and 2.5)

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Chapter 5 is turning into the repeat-y-est chapter to date as far as questions I’ve already pretty much answered. Here are PQ 2.4 and PQ 2.5,  » Read more

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Body Polytic: Why Poly People Don’t Like Being Called Swingers

Page   November 12, 2016   Comments Off on Body Polytic: Why Poly People Don’t Like Being Called Swingers

One of the most common questions I run into as I talk with polyamorous folks and frequent forums is: Why do poly people get upset when you call them swingers? What’s so bad about being a swinger?

I’ve struggled with this question a lot myself. I used to get really upset when people would call me a swinger.  » Read more

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