Tag Archives: bi erasure

The Relief of Finally Being Visibly and Actively Biromantic

As I wrote in an earlier piece, while I didn’t practice polyamory until the last decade or so, I’ve been bisexual for as long as I can remember. And as such, I’m no stranger to bisexual erasure. It’s been a constant companion no matter where I go.

Bisexual erasure involves basically any attempt to invalidate bisexuality as a real sexual identity,  » Read more

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Bisexuality, Islands of Desire, and Invisible Polyamory

Page   September 26, 2017   Comments Off on Bisexuality, Islands of Desire, and Invisible Polyamory

Invisible Polyamory

Skyspook and I have been charting my polyamorous web chart for the second book (coming soon). A map of my current relationship system, with all of my partners’ partners and so on. Taken as a whole, it looks hopelessly complicated.

But it never feels that way. These days it’s a pretty stable system.  » Read more

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Ask Page: Helping Bisexual Women Open Up

Page   March 23, 2017   Comments Off on Ask Page: Helping Bisexual Women Open Up

Hi Page,

My wife and I opened our marriage a while ago. Well, opened it at least in theory. We haven’t found anybody yet. Maybe it’s because we live in a conservative area with a lot of religious people, but it’s really been hard finding a woman to date us both (I’m straight,  » Read more

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Post-Poly Exile: On Your Own in the In-Between

Page   February 13, 2017   Comments Off on Post-Poly Exile: On Your Own in the In-Between

You Can’t Un-Learn a Thing

Once upon a time, I hadn’t even heard of the word “polyamory.” But when a friend came out to me as polyamorous, that changed forever.

You can’t un-learn a thing.

It was a paradigm shift. I no longer saw a strict binary: Monogamy/non-monogamy. With monogamy, as the ideal goal,  » Read more

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Actually into Women: A Bisexual Miracle

Page   October 22, 2016   Comments Off on Actually into Women: A Bisexual Miracle

I wasn’t the same woman after it happened, after I slept with a bisexual poly woman who wanted me just as much as I wanted her.

She was so incredibly soft. Her body slipped over me like a silk sheet as we rocked together, to waves only we felt.

I swam under her.  » Read more

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