Monthly Archives: August 2018

Musicians Who Prefer to Play in Groups Aren’t Considered Selfish, But Lovers Who Prefer Groups Are

Page   August 22, 2018   Comments Off on Musicians Who Prefer to Play in Groups Aren’t Considered Selfish, But Lovers Who Prefer Groups Are

I’m sitting with my girlfriend Ro at the jazz club. The band tonight is incredible. They tell us they drove directly to Cleveland from New Orleans, their home base. A 16-hour drive. But listening to them, you’d never know. If this is what rolling off the tour bus and phoning it in sounds like, I can’t imagine what their peak performance would be.  » Read more

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The Polyamory Card Office Is Permanently Closed

Page   August 16, 2018   Comments Off on The Polyamory Card Office Is Permanently Closed

In my line of work, I get a lot of questions that are phrased like this:

  • “Am I not polyamorous if….?”
  • “Does XYZ make me less polyamorous?”
  • “If polyamorous people do XYZ does that mean they can’t still call themselves polyamorous?”

And while I can honestly say I don’t mind answering these questions,  » Read more

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6 Things Jealousy Doesn’t Mean

Page   August 2, 2018   Comments Off on 6 Things Jealousy Doesn’t Mean

While jealousy may be a very strong emotional signal, it’s not a very specific one. As I’ve written before, it’s easy to panic when you experience jealousy, but it’s very much like a check engine light: Jealousy tells you that something is amiss but not what, exactly. And certainly how serious the issue is or how to really fix it.  » Read more

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