Monthly Archives: March 2018

Video Games That Let You Date Multiple People at Once

Page   March 26, 2018   Comments Off on Video Games That Let You Date Multiple People at Once

Hi Page, I read that you’re a gamer and one of your projects is a PC game that revolves around polyamory. That sounds exciting, but I can’t wait for that. Do you know of any games that are currently out that are inclusive of polyamory or at least let you date multiple people at once?   » Read more

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Poly Pitfalls: The Mass Mailing Issue

Page   March 23, 2018   Comments Off on Poly Pitfalls: The Mass Mailing Issue

Often when people talk about polyamory, they focus on a few, very specific problems. In particular, “How do you deal with the jealousy?” gets a lot of attention (please see this post for that answer). And it’s true that for many people, the hardest task of the first year or two of polyamory is learning how to become more emotionally secure and essentially becoming a better emotional parent to yourself (work which happily can translate to all negative emotions and not simply jealousy).  » Read more

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Without Polyamory, I Probably Never Would Have Dated My Husband

Page   March 22, 2018   Comments Off on Without Polyamory, I Probably Never Would Have Dated My Husband

I adore my husband. He loves and supports me so much that it humbles me. He’s raised my standards for what I believed was possible in love and relationships.

And perhaps the most amazing part of the whole experience of finding him is this: I probably wouldn’t have dated him when I was monogamous.  » Read more

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PQ 16.10 — How can I help support a partner who is feeling jealous or passed over?

Page   March 17, 2018   Comments Off on PQ 16.10 — How can I help support a partner who is feeling jealous or passed over?

PQ 16.10 — How can I help support a partner who is feeling jealous or passed over?

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It can be an incredibly difficult task to support a person who is feeling jealous or passed over — especially if our actions are part of the reason why they feel that way.  » Read more

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Everything I’ve Ever Learned About Non-Monogamy My Puppy Taught Me All Over Again

Page   March 8, 2018   Comments Off on Everything I’ve Ever Learned About Non-Monogamy My Puppy Taught Me All Over Again

Today’s piece is a guest blog post from Fluffy, an academic in-training, who is studying organizational behavior in hopes of making the world a better place.

They previously contributed four articles to Poly.Land:

  1. Is There a Right Time or Way to Break Up a Relationship?
  2. I Was Treated as a Disease Vector: Why There Are So Few Gay Men in Pansexual Polyamory
  3. Being Single Sucks,
  4.   » Read more

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It’s Easier to Be Polyamorous with Some Partners Than Others

Page   March 7, 2018   Comments Off on It’s Easier to Be Polyamorous with Some Partners Than Others

“Sometimes I think I must be bad at poly,” she says.

“Why do you say that?” I ask.

“I just seem to be having a lot more trouble than any of our other friends. I don’t know. After a while, you start to think there’s something wrong with you.”

I hesitate because I’m not sure how to say this.  » Read more

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How to Meet Polyamorous People

Page   March 2, 2018   Comments Off on How to Meet Polyamorous People

I’ve been interested in polyamory for a long time, and I have a question: How do you find partners? How do you meet polyamorous people? 

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A lot of people who are looking to date polyamorously will seek out new partners via a traditional dating platform like OkCupid or Tinder.  » Read more

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