Monthly Archives: August 2016

PQ 1.1 – Have I ever felt romantic love for more than one person at the same time?

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Poly Question 1.1 Have I ever felt romantic love for more than one person at the same time? * A beam of light pierced me through the van window, and I came to, suddenly. The sun had shifted in the early morning hours, and now it was trained on me like a search light, cutting … Continue reading “PQ 1.1 – Have I ever felt romantic love for more than one person at the same time?”

PQ 1.1 – Have I ever felt romantic love for more than one person at the same time?

Page   August 31, 2016   Comments Off on PQ 1.1 – Have I ever felt romantic love for more than one person at the same time?

Poly Question 1.1 Have I ever felt romantic love for more than one person at the same time? * A beam of light pierced me through the van window, and I came to, suddenly. The sun had shifted in the early morning hours, and now it was trained on me like a search light, cutting […]

Polyamory Questions (from More than Two)

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When I read More than Two by Franklin Veaux and Eve Rickert, I found the end of chapter questions particularly thought-provoking. It occurred to me that I could probably write an essay for the blog on each one. That is precisely what I aim to do. This post will serve as the index. I’ll put … Continue reading “Polyamory Questions (from More than Two)”

Polyamory Questions (from More than Two)

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When I read More than Two by Franklin Veaux and Eve Rickert, I found the end of chapter questions particularly thought-provoking. It occurred to me that I could probably write an essay for the blog on each one. That is precisely what I aim to do. This post will serve as the index. I’ll put […]

It’s Never About Sex, Except When It is

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“It’s funny,” I said, “My biggest poly freak outs weren’t about sex at all.” In olden days, there was the epic tale of The Time Seth Lent Megan My Favorite Sweater Without Asking Me. I locked myself in the bedroom and denied him entry, stating that it was limited to “people who actually care about … Continue reading “It’s Never About Sex, Except When It is”

It’s Never About Sex, Except When It is

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“It’s funny,” I said, “My biggest poly freak outs weren’t about sex at all.” In olden days, there was the epic tale of The Time Seth Lent Megan My Favorite Sweater Without Asking Me. I locked myself in the bedroom and denied him entry, stating that it was limited to “people who actually care about […]

There Are No Magic Words

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“I should never have used that word,” I said. “The L word. I thought nothing of it, but they totally got the wrong idea.” “Oh, but it’s YOU!” she said. “I know,” I agreed. “Anyone who knows you, well… they know you say that to everybody. There’s a different way that you act when you’re … Continue reading “There Are No Magic Words”

There Are No Magic Words

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“I should never have used that word,” I said. “The L word. I thought nothing of it, but they totally got the wrong idea.” “Oh, but it’s YOU!” she said. “I know,” I agreed. “Anyone who knows you, well… they know you say that to everybody. There’s a different way that you act when you’re […]

It’s Not Actually Easy

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It’s been great to touch base lately with some of my other partnered poly friends. My best friend Fluffy, while definitely polyamorous and possessing a very similar bent towards relationship anarchy as my own, has a hard time finding partners and hasn’t been in a relationship for a few years now. The spirit is willing, … Continue reading “It’s Not Actually Easy”

It’s Not Actually Easy

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It’s been great to touch base lately with some of my other partnered poly friends. My best friend Fluffy, while definitely polyamorous and possessing a very similar bent towards relationship anarchy as my own, has a hard time finding partners and hasn’t been in a relationship for a few years now. The spirit is willing, […]