Monthly Archives: July 2015

The Wine Pledge

Page   July 29, 2015   Comments Off on The Wine Pledge

In vino motherfucking veritas. Reopening my relationship with Skyspook has brought up a lot of emotions, many of them good, some of them bad, on both sides. However, even the bad has been largely productive — like sweeping under area rugs that haven’t been lifted for a while, cleaning up old trauma, childhood messes, minor […]

The Wine Pledge

Page   July 29, 2015   Comments Off on The Wine Pledge

In vino motherfucking veritas. Reopening my relationship with Skyspook has brought up a lot of emotions, many of them good, some of them bad, on both sides. However, even the bad has been largely productive — like sweeping under area rugs that haven’t been lifted for a while, cleaning up old trauma, childhood messes, minor […]

There is Debris in the Road

Page   July 28, 2015   Comments Off on There is Debris in the Road

There is debris in the road. The last few weeks have been eventful. I had my first meetups with matches from OkCupid and have started dating someone, a boy a decent bit younger than me who is also far more into submission than the men I normally date. To say it’s been interesting would be […]

There is Debris in the Road

Page   July 28, 2015   Comments Off on There is Debris in the Road

There is debris in the road. The last few weeks have been eventful. I had my first meetups with matches from OkCupid and have started dating someone, a boy a decent bit younger than me who is also far more into submission than the men I normally date. To say it’s been interesting would be […]

The Crocs of Sex

Page   July 19, 2015   Comments Off on The Crocs of Sex

I want to negotiate, Seth writes, but I don’t even know where to start.  A hot girl wants to top him, he adds, one from our old poly/swing circle back in Maine. I know her but not well. Talk about your fantasies. Talk about what you’d like to get out of the arrangement. Talk about what you’ve […]

The Crocs of Sex

Page   July 19, 2015   Comments Off on The Crocs of Sex

I want to negotiate, Seth writes, but I don’t even know where to start.  A hot girl wants to top him, he adds, one from our old poly/swing circle back in Maine. I know her but not well. Talk about your fantasies. Talk about what you’d like to get out of the arrangement. Talk about what you’ve […]

Brad and Janet

Page   July 8, 2015   Comments Off on Brad and Janet

Meet Brad and Janet, two young virgins in love. The very epitome of wholesomeness. Not one stray hair out of place. They mean well, they really do. They’ve colored within the lines all of their lives, gone through the recommended motions, and one night, their car breaks down, and they find themselves surrounded by perverts. […]

Our Glorious Fortnight

Page   July 7, 2015   Comments Off on Our Glorious Fortnight

It’s been 2 weeks since Skyspook and I first agreed that the time had come to reopen our relationship after a long period of exclusivity, bonding, and self-development. From the outside, very little has changed. From the inside? Well, that’s a very different story. I binge read 5 to 10 years of several different poly […]

Dude, you are bad at messaging people

Page   July 3, 2015   Comments Off on Dude, you are bad at messaging people

I don’t understand why even bother to get married if you both cheat? I’m gathering your husband is a nice guy you love but just isn’t man enough to take care of your needs. He could use some tips from me it sounds like! Deepest of deep eye rolls. Sent a link to a primer […]