Monthly Archives: April 2014

Happy 2nd Birthday, Divorce!

Page   April 16, 2014   Comments Off on Happy 2nd Birthday, Divorce!

Despite the fact that I spent most of my life vehemently anti-divorce and swore I’d never get one, divorce was the best thing ever when I actually needed one.  It took an impossible situation and turned it into one that was challenging–but not impossible. You see, I’d stipulated early on in my marriage to Seth […]


Page   April 15, 2014   Comments Off on Whiplash

I was over poking around at the Pragmatic Polyamory blog this morning and edited a saved partial draft of an essay I’d been working on, which is reblogged below (“Coming Out”). I have to say though that the experience of reading the essays that Skyspook and I wrote for the site 3 years ago (some […]

Why am I Poly?

Page   April 15, 2014   Comments Off on Why am I Poly?

Originally posted on Pragmatic Polyamory:
As a single male, I’m actually asked why I think I’m poly. After all, most people who are poly come into it from a marriage or other serious relationship. The relationship opens, and they explore from the base of this primary relationship. This situation seems to cover most of the…

Open or Ajar?

Page   April 14, 2014   Comments Off on Open or Ajar?

I’ve been reflecting on polyamory again. Although Skyspook and I have been exclusive for over 2 years, we started out dating each other non-monogamously, and I had a decently sizable web of lovers before the shit really hit the fan. My ex-husband Seth and I opened our marriage after 8 years of being monogamous together […]