Monthly Archives: November 2012

Attachment Styles

Page   November 28, 2012   Comments Off on Attachment Styles

I mentioned in my last blog post, “Patient, Forget Thyself,” that the last book I finished, Martin Seligman’s Authentic Happiness, had multiple take-aways. The one I described in that entry was the distinction Seligman makes regarding gratification vs. pleasure and the integral part self-absorption plays in depression. The other huge take-away for me was an […]

Obscurantista » polyamory 2012-11-27 18:37:00

Page   November 27, 2012   Comments Off on Obscurantista » polyamory 2012-11-27 18:37:00

I had a dream last night that my ex-boyfriend Rob* randomly showed up for one of our parties. The other guests were instantly uncomfortable. Rob asked to talk to me privately. Despite many disapproving glances, I agreed and went off to another room to talk to him alone. In the real world, Rob and I […]

First Draft DONE!

Page   November 16, 2012   Comments Off on First Draft DONE!

Well, this is exciting! This morning I finished the first draft of the book I’ve been writing, the memoir about my (now-defunct) open marriage. I managed to end up with a longer manuscript than I’d anticipated and finished 6 weeks ahead of schedule. Fantastic! Skyspook and I are looking into formats and such for Kindle […]